Let me ask you something. What does it mean to be successful? How do you define success? What does success look like?
These are questions that have some many different answers and it’s because success is and does look different for everyone. But one thing I have always thought was true about success is that it can bring you great happiness, even in the darkest of times.
All my life I have set goals, some that I have accomplished, some that I have abandoned, and some that I am still currently pursuing. All the goals that I have set and achieved thus far in my life have always been for one greater purpose, the sake of my success and happiness.
As I get closer to accomplishing one of my biggest goals, I’ve come to realize something very important. Success does not equal happiness, but rather when you are happy, success is likely to follow.
What? Mind blown, yes, I know! But it’s so true.
For years I’ve been chasing the idea of what it means to be successful. For me that looked a lot like being financially stable and independent, working a career that I loved and was passionate about, and believing that by achieving all of this I would undoubtably be happy.
However, this past year I’ve learned that this isn’t how happiness works.
Happiness brings about success in many different ways. One thing I have learned for certain is that you can’t chase success in hopes of finding happiness. You have to first be happy in order to gain success. [Read more…]